So, I'm so ambivalent about what to get my boyfriend for christmas. He is an artsy/intellectual guy.   This is stuff I know he would like: T.S Eliot poetry book (hardcover). (20-ish dollars) Coffee from this coffee shop here in Tucson. (Less than 10)  35 mm film for camera (7 bucks) I don't know how much to spend? He wants a chef knife that is 120 bucks. But I feel like I could get him a lot more small things. oh geez WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?  LOL How much is too much to spend? somebody respond please, I'm clueless.